Steph
Hi Stephanie,
Well, I suppose you're right ... most women probably do go into this, or any type of work, primarily for the money ... as it happens, I seem to have met more of those (few?) who were looking for something more, or something different ... you know, a way to make a decent living, yes, but with the emphasis on the decent, lol.
I've no doubt that what you say is true: I'm sure some women have found substantial, even remarkable, success in MK, with only a little effort; that can, and does, sometimes happen in most any line of work: for whatever reason, or reasons, for some people, it all just comes together, as if meant to be. The right person, at the right place, at the right time, in the right line of work ...
But the numbers would indicate that in MK, as in any other company/field of work, such a situation is not only not the norm, it's not typical, and perhaps not even common ... that's where I think the recruiting pitch ought to be adjusted, to be more realistic: I think it's fine to talk about what's possible, but many recruiters/directors make it sound as if anyone not having the ultra-success experience must be some kind of lazy loser-girl, lol.
And there's considerable evidence suggesting the prevalence, in MK, of a kind of emotional double-talk in both recruiting and unit meetings: MK is flexible, can be what you want/need it to be; whatever you do that suits you is fine; do a little/do a lot, go fast/go slow, put faith and your family ahead of your career ... BUT, at the same time, you've GOT to WORK your business; you're not SERIOUS (i.e. worth your director's time and attention) if you don't look, talk, dress, think, act the MK Way (and you'd better show up at MK functions, whether your family likes it or not); you need to keep those order levels up (if you don't, your director might miss production and lose her car, guiltguiltguilt); if your unit falters, that might make you, the director, miss production, and lose your car, so you feel pressured to pressure your unit members ... you know, all that back and to emotionally can be hard on people, I think especially on women, who tend to personalize work issues much more than do men.
None of this is to say that MK is unique in having some aspects to its conduct of business that could be substantially improved - what business doesn't? - but the emphasis on the uniquely MK notion of "constant positivity," at the expense of hard facts and clarity, really doesn't inspire sensible people, in the end - it just frustrates and exasperates them, and makes them wonder why a company would want its associates to behave in such an artificial manner.
All that aside, I'm so glad that you are again active, walking, recovering ... and, very best of luck to you as you go forward with recruiting and sales; I do hope a car is in your future, one way or another: I know an MK consultant who does just sales, no recruiting, and her MK profits pay her car payment; although, in her case she keeps a regular job, as well (a job she loves, actually, and that pays well, so that's doubly nice for her), relieving her of the benefits problem.
If you don't mind my asking, what do you mean when you say you're building a list of businesses to sell to? I'm probably just being dense here, but I don't quite get your meaning on that ...
Thanks again for all your patience and effort in posting information,
Bunny W - 19 Feb 2004
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